It's bugging me for no reason...
I have totally lost touch of having nice, good titles for my bloggie... =.= I believe this is the side effect of not posting for a long long LONG time?? *sighs*
But, yeh... SOMETHING's bugging me for no reason.
LOL.
Seriously.
This thing adds on my curiousity towards... HUMAN BEINGS.
Although I kind of figured out the logic (if it even is one LOGIC) of this... matter.
I went to the psychiatrist with my mom yesterday. As usual, I will see quite a number of patients... Different kinds of patients... Mostly, children. Yes. CHILDREN. LOL. Those who... don't really know too much about me, might thought that I was the one who have to visit the psychiatrist? *laughs* Haha~ Oh well! *shrugs* Anyhoo, back to what I was saying.
I saw parent(s) bringing along with their child in the clinic, and I couldn't really tell that if they are... abnormal or something, but they really looked like a normal child. THE LOOKS OF IT. Yes. Like a normal child? Yes. However, their actions and the way they talked simply shows that... they are kids with problems... not exactly the emotional way though. The... biological way, perhaps...? I don't know how to express what I'm thinking at the moment. =.=
Anyway, yeah, I was just sitting there, waiting and reading my *cough*articles for assignment*cough*... But I wasn't able to concentrate because I couldn't take my eyes off the children in the clinic. The way they talk, act and being rebellious... It just... caught me. I was actually pretty amazed with them for no reason. And guess what? I actually sit there smiling and chuckling all by myself looking at them. They are, cute, too.
The thing that... sort of bugging me was when this couple came into the clinic, and the little boy was being carried by his father. Along came his mother, who was carrying a box of sweets and snacks, who was... PREGNANT. Maybe you're asking:" So yeah, she's pregnant. And so what? None of YOUR business anyway!" Yeah, maybe you're right. However, this is seriously bugging me.
That boy, was clearly a child with psychological disorder. Like I've mentioned, the children (and yes, apparently this boy I'm mentioning) LOOKED NORMAL. The thing that I came to know that they have problem is by observing their actions. And seriously, this boy was... abnormal compared to another two kids that were in the clinic at that time. The way he walks... He walks with the tip of his toes and was sort of hopping in... some sort of way... And he constantly yelling like:" Oh! Woh! Woooooh! Oh! Oh!!" Something like that. And his eyes were... emotionless. It's like... he's in his own world. I suppose he's an autistic child... I guess, from the cases that I saw in the special children centre that my mom worked in.
Come back to the pregnant mother. Now, do you get how I felt?
Sometimes, I couldn't understand why. Why does the couple still want to have another child after another even though there's already a possibility that their new born might be another similar case with their first child or children who happens to be psychologically abnormal?
Don't they think it's a type of torture to their children? Aren't they afraid?
I could understand that parents hope and take risks to have babies in order to try to have a normal child. Just like the parents of the special children in the special chilren centre. There are a lot of cases where almost every single child of the parents are psychologically abnormal. And YET, they still have the pleasure of sex, get pregant, and give birth to a newborn. I'm not being sacarstic or anything. There are people who just have sex, preganant, and make themselves like a baby-making machine. LOOK AROUND YOU.
The even... riddiculus part is that... some (and probably most) of the parents do not treat their abnormal child/children good. They ignore them. They take their child/children as their family's humiliation. However, there are parents that love their child with all their hearts and always seek for the best for their child. I admire and respect them, very very much.
It's not that I'm tyring to emphasize that parents who had or have or whatever verb, noun, whatever it is to say it, should not have newborns in their family. I just feel that, sometimes, they need to take things into serious consideration.
- the future of their children is the main consideration.
They, parents, do not live forever. It is impossible to protect or take care of their abnormal child for the years of their lives. There's no certainty that their abnormal child will die BEFORE them or something.
Think WISELY people. For EVERYTHING you're doing.
I know. I know.
Easier to be said than being done.
I know.
-Jas-
But, yeh... SOMETHING's bugging me for no reason.
LOL.
Seriously.
This thing adds on my curiousity towards... HUMAN BEINGS.
Although I kind of figured out the logic (if it even is one LOGIC) of this... matter.
I went to the psychiatrist with my mom yesterday. As usual, I will see quite a number of patients... Different kinds of patients... Mostly, children. Yes. CHILDREN. LOL. Those who... don't really know too much about me, might thought that I was the one who have to visit the psychiatrist? *laughs* Haha~ Oh well! *shrugs* Anyhoo, back to what I was saying.
I saw parent(s) bringing along with their child in the clinic, and I couldn't really tell that if they are... abnormal or something, but they really looked like a normal child. THE LOOKS OF IT. Yes. Like a normal child? Yes. However, their actions and the way they talked simply shows that... they are kids with problems... not exactly the emotional way though. The... biological way, perhaps...? I don't know how to express what I'm thinking at the moment. =.=
Anyway, yeah, I was just sitting there, waiting and reading my *cough*articles for assignment*cough*... But I wasn't able to concentrate because I couldn't take my eyes off the children in the clinic. The way they talk, act and being rebellious... It just... caught me. I was actually pretty amazed with them for no reason. And guess what? I actually sit there smiling and chuckling all by myself looking at them. They are, cute, too.
The thing that... sort of bugging me was when this couple came into the clinic, and the little boy was being carried by his father. Along came his mother, who was carrying a box of sweets and snacks, who was... PREGNANT. Maybe you're asking:" So yeah, she's pregnant. And so what? None of YOUR business anyway!" Yeah, maybe you're right. However, this is seriously bugging me.
That boy, was clearly a child with psychological disorder. Like I've mentioned, the children (and yes, apparently this boy I'm mentioning) LOOKED NORMAL. The thing that I came to know that they have problem is by observing their actions. And seriously, this boy was... abnormal compared to another two kids that were in the clinic at that time. The way he walks... He walks with the tip of his toes and was sort of hopping in... some sort of way... And he constantly yelling like:" Oh! Woh! Woooooh! Oh! Oh!!" Something like that. And his eyes were... emotionless. It's like... he's in his own world. I suppose he's an autistic child... I guess, from the cases that I saw in the special children centre that my mom worked in.
Come back to the pregnant mother. Now, do you get how I felt?
Sometimes, I couldn't understand why. Why does the couple still want to have another child after another even though there's already a possibility that their new born might be another similar case with their first child or children who happens to be psychologically abnormal?
Don't they think it's a type of torture to their children? Aren't they afraid?
I could understand that parents hope and take risks to have babies in order to try to have a normal child. Just like the parents of the special children in the special chilren centre. There are a lot of cases where almost every single child of the parents are psychologically abnormal. And YET, they still have the pleasure of sex, get pregant, and give birth to a newborn. I'm not being sacarstic or anything. There are people who just have sex, preganant, and make themselves like a baby-making machine. LOOK AROUND YOU.
The even... riddiculus part is that... some (and probably most) of the parents do not treat their abnormal child/children good. They ignore them. They take their child/children as their family's humiliation. However, there are parents that love their child with all their hearts and always seek for the best for their child. I admire and respect them, very very much.
It's not that I'm tyring to emphasize that parents who had or have or whatever verb, noun, whatever it is to say it, should not have newborns in their family. I just feel that, sometimes, they need to take things into serious consideration.
- the future of their children is the main consideration.
They, parents, do not live forever. It is impossible to protect or take care of their abnormal child for the years of their lives. There's no certainty that their abnormal child will die BEFORE them or something.
Think WISELY people. For EVERYTHING you're doing.
I know. I know.
Easier to be said than being done.
I know.
-Jas-
Comments
They might have their own reasons for their actions that they felt acceptable but appeared to be not too humane to you.
I don't know, I'm just guessing.
different people have different mindsets~
thanks for your comment! ^^
ur blog theme a bit same with a old hong kong drama that im watching...hehe...mayb it's a bit late for me to comment...
anyway...just passed by...haha...