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Hmm... I have been thinking of putting up this particular topic since... A few weeks ago I think? Haha~~ Well, didn't really like to touch about this topic though, since one of my friends supported me to put this topic so... Haha.. Why not? I'm pretty sure there's going to have part 2,3... Well, depends how many things or any other related things that I can mention! Before I start, I just want to say that I have no offence with any of the couples out there ya~~ Just in case I mentioned anything that's sensitive... Keke~ PEACE!!
Okay... Erm...?? Ooh~ Nowadays, they're like many many ( and I mean really many) of the couples out there are aged betweeen... Can't really tell... 15-17 perhaps? Some of them are couples since secondary until... University? Or even get married I suppose!! Well, it isn't that I don't support this love thingy during secondary, or to be more spesific, during education period (is that how they say??).
There's just these questions flying in my mind all the time:
- Are you going to marry him/her, and actually be with the same person for the rest of your life? (consider if you actually are couples since the age of 15)
- Have you ever figured that they're actually better people out there? (well, ok, I know that you can't just wait for the best of the best... whatever lar~ just a question lar)
- If you really meet a person that's better, and you already have a bf/gf(relationship boyfriend/girlfriend), what would you do? Just break-up? LOL
- Don't you ever think that will you be bored or fed up with your partner if you're together in such a young age, and end up married, and be together for the rest of your life?? (ok, NO OFFENCE HERE!!!)
- Don't you think that's actually a social suicide when you actually have a bf/gf? Especially girls, did you think about this matter?
- Don't you think that during our education period, we should just have fun with a big bunch of friends and record to yourself the most memorable memories? Instead of being with only one person(your bf/gf)? Well, yes I know that being with someone you love is something that is really really happy. But have you think about the question???
- Have you explored the world enough? Until you are willing to stuck yourself with one person?
Ok, there are actually more questions, but I can't think of any now... Haha~~
Seriously for those who have bf/gf since 15 or so, don't you have that kind of questions popping out of your mind? Still, it's not that I don't agree with having bf/gf at this age, I'm just curious that have you ever ever think of it?!?! I kinda think that it's not appropriate to have a relationship bf/gf during secondary, it's kinda ok during university.. Aiyah whatever, starting to lost track of what I wanna say.. Haha~~ Back to the point, I somehow think that it's just too early that you stuck yourself to one person at such age. (NO OFFENCE!!! Sweat... Just MY opinion) Why? Easy. THE WORLD IS HUGE, SO MANY THINGS TO SEE, TO EXPLORE, TO EXPERIENCE.
Just imagine, you have a bf/gf since you're 15 years old, and you both manage to keep the good relationship until you're in university. What's the problem now? You get to see more, different kinds of people. Get it? Which means you have the opportunity to get to know a better person. Besides getting to know a better person the opposite sex, you get to know a circle of friends. Think about it, isin't it sucks that when a group of friends invited you to hang out and everytime you give them the same answer :" I had a date with my bf/gf"? This is like what I called social suicide, because you're somehow occupied with your bf/gf, and didn't really hang out with your friends. Like I said, SOMEHOW, NOT EVERYTIME. Ok, now, let's say that you still manage to keep the relationship until you both graduate university, and start working, and get married. (Oh my god, can't believe I'm going to talk about this) Now what? You're going to stuck with this particular person for the rest of your life!! (Ok, exclude that you might get divorced one day) Think about what you've missed! The fun, the romance(maybe), the adventure, the experience... So many things! And let's say, you're together since 15, and let's say you married this person, and let's say you live until the age of 85. OMG.... You actually stay with this person for like 70 years!!! Won't you get fed up or bored?? LOL....
Well, I'm kind of lost of words now, didn't know how or what I wanted to express! Hope that for those who read this get what I'm trying to say here... Again, NO OFFENCE!!! Sweat...
-Jas-
Okay... Erm...?? Ooh~ Nowadays, they're like many many ( and I mean really many) of the couples out there are aged betweeen... Can't really tell... 15-17 perhaps? Some of them are couples since secondary until... University? Or even get married I suppose!! Well, it isn't that I don't support this love thingy during secondary, or to be more spesific, during education period (is that how they say??).
There's just these questions flying in my mind all the time:
- Are you going to marry him/her, and actually be with the same person for the rest of your life? (consider if you actually are couples since the age of 15)
- Have you ever figured that they're actually better people out there? (well, ok, I know that you can't just wait for the best of the best... whatever lar~ just a question lar)
- If you really meet a person that's better, and you already have a bf/gf(relationship boyfriend/girlfriend), what would you do? Just break-up? LOL
- Don't you ever think that will you be bored or fed up with your partner if you're together in such a young age, and end up married, and be together for the rest of your life?? (ok, NO OFFENCE HERE!!!)
- Don't you think that's actually a social suicide when you actually have a bf/gf? Especially girls, did you think about this matter?
- Don't you think that during our education period, we should just have fun with a big bunch of friends and record to yourself the most memorable memories? Instead of being with only one person(your bf/gf)? Well, yes I know that being with someone you love is something that is really really happy. But have you think about the question???
- Have you explored the world enough? Until you are willing to stuck yourself with one person?
Ok, there are actually more questions, but I can't think of any now... Haha~~
Seriously for those who have bf/gf since 15 or so, don't you have that kind of questions popping out of your mind? Still, it's not that I don't agree with having bf/gf at this age, I'm just curious that have you ever ever think of it?!?! I kinda think that it's not appropriate to have a relationship bf/gf during secondary, it's kinda ok during university.. Aiyah whatever, starting to lost track of what I wanna say.. Haha~~ Back to the point, I somehow think that it's just too early that you stuck yourself to one person at such age. (NO OFFENCE!!! Sweat... Just MY opinion) Why? Easy. THE WORLD IS HUGE, SO MANY THINGS TO SEE, TO EXPLORE, TO EXPERIENCE.
Just imagine, you have a bf/gf since you're 15 years old, and you both manage to keep the good relationship until you're in university. What's the problem now? You get to see more, different kinds of people. Get it? Which means you have the opportunity to get to know a better person. Besides getting to know a better person the opposite sex, you get to know a circle of friends. Think about it, isin't it sucks that when a group of friends invited you to hang out and everytime you give them the same answer :" I had a date with my bf/gf"? This is like what I called social suicide, because you're somehow occupied with your bf/gf, and didn't really hang out with your friends. Like I said, SOMEHOW, NOT EVERYTIME. Ok, now, let's say that you still manage to keep the relationship until you both graduate university, and start working, and get married. (Oh my god, can't believe I'm going to talk about this) Now what? You're going to stuck with this particular person for the rest of your life!! (Ok, exclude that you might get divorced one day) Think about what you've missed! The fun, the romance(maybe), the adventure, the experience... So many things! And let's say, you're together since 15, and let's say you married this person, and let's say you live until the age of 85. OMG.... You actually stay with this person for like 70 years!!! Won't you get fed up or bored?? LOL....
Well, I'm kind of lost of words now, didn't know how or what I wanted to express! Hope that for those who read this get what I'm trying to say here... Again, NO OFFENCE!!! Sweat...
-Jas-
Comments
I think divorce should not be inside…. It should not even come 2 ur mind… when you wanna get married, better think carefully coz its not like buy bread or even food… ( finish then throw )
When you really love the other person, you won’t gt bored wan…. If you gt bored then maybe that is not love its other thing…. Excluding if you spend like 70 over years together lah…. & then why you keep counting from 15? I have 2 agree with you that during sec. school time it is best not to couple up… as for uni r college time, you should try 2 look out for it… coz when you come out 2 work you might not have must time… looking at the current earn as much as you can situation… so why not couple during uni?
yeah i know if you really really love someone from head to toe, you won't get bored d~ but it's different matter when it comes to marriage~ during relationship you will still like ok, i'm going to be patient on him/her or something else, when you're married, hah, the "sweetness" just gone bit by bit.
TIME is the issue. here. :)
as for going out with friends, boys don't have any prob d, i think most of the prob is with girls, as girls are somehow attached with her guy, wanted her guy to be with her all the time (kinda, but not me lar! i dun like..keke..;P). So i kinda put my focus of this topic for girls, of course guys as well lar, but still.. haiya.. too long edi lar!!
-Jas-
how can you exclude divorce?? you can't garantee that this might not happen! can you? and of course you have to think properly before marrying someone lar~LOL if not you just marry a really lousy person ehh?!
still like i said, no one knows what will happen after marriage, or in the future as you may say. who knows that something happened and forced to a divorce? you can't tell right? It's not that i mean marriage MUST have a divorce as an ending, it's just a possibility.
-Jas-