Only child
Probably those who have siblings think that, or maybe hoped that they are the only child. So that they got all the attention from their parents, they can have anything they want, it's like they can have the whole world. They may think those who are the only golden child in the house is a spoilt brat, he/she don't know anything about house work, he/she don't know anything about life's difficulty... And others stuff that can relate in your mind...
Let me tell you the truth, being the only child is not a fun thing. Not all the time. How do I know? Well, like you would guess, I AM the only child in my family. Well, yes. Being the only child do have the fun part, like you don't have to share things with your siblings... You don't have to get into a quarrel with your siblings and probably you're the one to be blamed... You KIND OF get everything you want, but not everything. You got all the attention from your parents. They give you FULL 100% of love, as you don't have any siblings so there are no jealously like mom loves you more, or dad loves me less and stuff like that...
The not-so-fun part, is that parents really really pay attention on you. What is it? Over protection. Yes... They got over protected over their child. They just keep on protecting you. Because they're afraid of losing you. Sometimes if the kid is really TOO protected, they cannot get use to the real cruel world. That is a SUICIDE to your child. The other not-so-fun part is that, the child don't have any siblings. That's why they're just lonely, because literally they don't have anyone to play with, to really really talk about anything to someone. And sometimes, the child feels that they don't have enough freedom. Because of the parents just don't let go in some of the ways.
Well, I'm writting this is not because I wanna tell the WHOLE WORLD that I'm the only child and I have really lame parents. They are the bestest mom and dad in this entire universe, I wouldn't want much from them. Sometimes I really hope that they are in my shoes, understand what I feel, understand what a teenager feels. I know I'm not the good girl. Maybe I am selfish, because I know that they just wouldn't like something, but I insist something to go my way. Sorry mom and dad. I love you both, but I really hope you guys would just understand.
-Jas-
Let me tell you the truth, being the only child is not a fun thing. Not all the time. How do I know? Well, like you would guess, I AM the only child in my family. Well, yes. Being the only child do have the fun part, like you don't have to share things with your siblings... You don't have to get into a quarrel with your siblings and probably you're the one to be blamed... You KIND OF get everything you want, but not everything. You got all the attention from your parents. They give you FULL 100% of love, as you don't have any siblings so there are no jealously like mom loves you more, or dad loves me less and stuff like that...
The not-so-fun part, is that parents really really pay attention on you. What is it? Over protection. Yes... They got over protected over their child. They just keep on protecting you. Because they're afraid of losing you. Sometimes if the kid is really TOO protected, they cannot get use to the real cruel world. That is a SUICIDE to your child. The other not-so-fun part is that, the child don't have any siblings. That's why they're just lonely, because literally they don't have anyone to play with, to really really talk about anything to someone. And sometimes, the child feels that they don't have enough freedom. Because of the parents just don't let go in some of the ways.
Well, I'm writting this is not because I wanna tell the WHOLE WORLD that I'm the only child and I have really lame parents. They are the bestest mom and dad in this entire universe, I wouldn't want much from them. Sometimes I really hope that they are in my shoes, understand what I feel, understand what a teenager feels. I know I'm not the good girl. Maybe I am selfish, because I know that they just wouldn't like something, but I insist something to go my way. Sorry mom and dad. I love you both, but I really hope you guys would just understand.
-Jas-
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