She reminds me again, and again - to never give too much to a person, called man. Never give too much of myself, never give too much time, never give too much effort, never give too much love, never give too much trust, never give too much of everything. It left me ponder. What else is there in a relationship, if you kept holding yourself back so much just because you are afraid of the consequences of getting hurt and stabbed by the heart? How about the past, present or future happy moments? Are they not real, but mere illusions of that person? Recently I came across course seminars about relationships, and how vast numbers of researches were done on studying why relationship satisfaction would ultimately decrease (either slowly, or steeply) - how types of communications, attachment styles, personalities, positive illusions and so forth would make or break relationships. I came to realize how many of these researches are looking in this way: "Look, here's the probl...